5. The Fun Factor. Don't get so bogged down in your job search that you forget to have a good time. Retreating into isolation will leave you unhappy and unproductive, so ask your friends to keep your dance card full.
Not all of your friends will be up to the task of making a deep commitment to helping you out—but some of them certainly will be, and asking is the only way you'll find out. In doing so, you'll have made a giant first step toward creating what I call "lifeline relationships" in
Who's Got Your Back—an inner circle of deep, trusting friends and colleagues who will do everything imaginable so that you won't fail.