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Conjoined Twins Find a Life Apart

Conjoined twins Kendra and Maliyah Herrin made medical history when they were separated. Here, for the first time, the family shares its story of love and survival.

By Cathy Free from Reader's Digest | September 2008

“Separating conjoined twins is never standard,” says Michael Matlak, MD, one of the surgeons who operated on the Herrin girls. No two sets of twins are joined in quite the same way, and there’s always a chance that something will go fatally wrong.

Kendra and Maliyah’s team included six surgeons, five other specialists, and more than 25 nurses and technicians. With Dr. Meyers acting as director, they spent 16 hours dividing the girls’ torsos, rerouting their circulatory systems, and allotting each twin a share of liver and intestines. Then, just after midnight, they split into two teams-Maliyah’s led by W. Bradford Rockwell, MD, and Kendra’s by Dr. Matlak-to put each girl back together.

“My God, what have we done?” Dr. Matlak exclaimed when he saw the gaping fissures where the twins had been connected. The pediatric surgeon had performed half a dozen separations in the past, but he’d never encountered wounds as massive as these. He wasn’t sure Kendra would have enough extra skin to cover the chasm running half the length of her body.

His colleagues fell silent, and Dr. Matlak walked out to compose himself. In a nearby room, he found the twins’ parents and other family members gathered. The surgeon told them of his concerns for Kendra, and the group began to pray. Dr. Matlak returned to the OR, his doubts allayed. “All right,” he said as he prepared to move Kendra into an adjoining room. “Let’s close her up.”

For the next ten hours, the two teams worked simultaneously to rebuild each girl’s pelvis and abdominal wall. There was enough extra skin to cover both girls’ incisions—in Kendra’s case, just barely. At 9:30 the following morning, the twins slept in the ICU, in separate beds for the first time. The nurses pushed their cots together so that when they woke up, they could look at each other and hold hands.

When the Herrins saw their daughters, they held each other and wept. “Everything we’d gone through for the past five years came rushing back,” says Jake. “It was such a powerful thing-like they were born again.”

The surgeons were moved as well. Dr. Matlak retreated to an empty room, where he broke down in tears. “Joy and gratitude just washed over me,” he recalls. Dr. Meyers checked the girls’ vital signs; she was astonished to see that their blood pressure and heart rates were still identical. “Twins have a special bond,” she said. “There’s no doubt about that.”

Courtney, then six, was less impressed with the outcome. When she saw her sisters in the hospital, she cried, “Mommy and Daddy, why did you take them apart? I liked them the way they were!”

The twins’ ordeal wasn’t over. They stayed in the hospital another 12 weeks. Maliyah underwent dialysis three days a week, which often made her so ill that she had hallucinations. Kendra needed surgery for an intestinal blockage. The skin around both twins’ incisions began to retract, requiring treatment with “wound vacs” to suction away dead tissue and stimulate new growth.

By April 2007, when Maliyah was ready to receive her mother’s kidney, the couple were emotionally drained. “The girls had been to the brink of death and back, and the whole family had gone with them. We had to make one last push, but it was pretty hard for all of us,” Erin says.

The transplant was successful, but only time could answer the question that haunted the Herrins: Had all the twins’ suffering been worthwhile?

“Kendra, hurry!” Maliyah calls out, tapping at a keyboard in her parents’ study. “I’m sending you an e-mail!”

Climbing into a chair nearby, her twin logs on to another computer. “Dear Kendra,” says the message in her inbox, “you’re my best friend. Love, Maliyah.”

As she types a reply, Kendra glances toward her sister. “You can’t look yet,” she warns Maliyah. “It’s a secret.”

The six-year-old twins need more surgeries to straighten their spines (which formed a V when they were conjoined), but in most respects they’re thriving. They’re busy with playdates and swimming lessons and will start first grade in September. By early next year, their parents hope to have them fitted with prosthetic legs. Meanwhile, the girls are learning to use crutches, though Maliyah still prefers scooting around on the floor.

The twins have not forgotten their conjoined days. “Sometimes we still pretend we’re stuck together,” Kendra says. “But now we can do more things.”

They can keep secrets from each other. They can play hide-and-seek with their brothers and Courtney, who has realized that her sisters’ separation actually adds to the fun. They can decorate their own bedrooms and choose their own Halloween costumes. “Little things like that have made a huge difference,” says Erin. “I want them to grow up thinking that anything is possible.”

In one important way, though, the girls haven’t changed. Some nights, when Erin and Jake look in on them, they find that one twin has sneaked into the other’s room. Kendra and Maliyah are cuddled together in the same bed—side by side, as they’ve been from the start.

Your Comments

  • lisa–new mexico

    Amazing story and an amazing family. You are truly a blessed family, may God bless you.

  • Soccermummy

    I am so happy for the girls. And God Bless the parents for all they went thru. It is so totally amazing that they got thru it all and are just happy fun loving children.

  • Simmers818

     Oh my goodness!  I could just hug them to death!  What a couple of sweethearts & well adjusted.  Thanks to the parents! So blessed.

  • Razz Matazz

    Amen.  God bless this family.  What beautiful girls.

  • deb

    Truly amazing story. Im so happy for this family..God Bless  them all

  • my malt

    A heartwarming story.  Wishing the very best for this family, especially the girls, with their new found freedom to enjoy life to the fullest.  God bless them all.

  • Amipatel351

    Wow, these girls are little miracles! I feel SO happy for the parents!

  • Linda Christmas

    Loving story…May God Bless all of you forever…love to all. <3

  • Jen

    I have to say that the mom was very young when she made this choice and I must give props where props are due.  I don’t think I could of done it. 

  • Jen

    I have to say that the mom was very young when she made this choice and I must give props where props are due.  I don’t think I could of done it. 

  • Saben

    What a wonderful heart warming story. My daughter has twins who are very healthy and when I read a story like this I know how blessed we are. Kendra and Maliyah will grow into wonderful women and they will contine to bless Jake and Erin.  Thank G-d for such tegnology. The doctors that dedicate themselves to help make miracles like this happen. There is a special place in Heaven for them. My congatulations and my very best wishes to this very beautiful family.

    • Butterflies5

       God Bless the doctors who took the time to give these girls a new life.  It must have been a wonderful feeling for them to see what they alone had accomplished.  These girls are very lucky to have such a wonderful family and medical help.

  • SueM

    what a wonderful story and such beautiful little happy girls you have. God Bless you all in your life ahead.

  • Winnpoh42

    I am a mother of twins. This story is truly amazing! May God bless and continue to work his miricales in  your family.  

  • Vallatt

    They are soo precious!!!

  • http://twitter.com/lorileeky Lori Lee

    Happy, happy kids

  • colleen

    Okay, so the girl was what 20 when she had her first baby? I’m not really going to get into that because this was an inspiring and heart felt article, but really? 21 and having twins?

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/6LEKG63DYLZJ3NDDXKQNQMXWFQ Jean

       what does her young age at having twins have to do with anything?

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_PWLNAUIQXMU6G2YTH7BJWDJ33M Lisa M.

      So why did you say anything at all? Her age has nothing to do with this.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_3EIK6427HPWZ5WA74SJBM3VHQM ______

    Very gifted Doctors who should be getting the praise here.

  • amothertoo

    So who paid for and will continue to pay for the enormous medical cost for these children?  At such a young age the parents would not usually have the resources to pay for even the 20% co-pay that most insurance would require. While this seems to be a wonderful story, one wonders about the true costs to others for this decision to have these children.

    • Jerry Ellis

      “One” can keep wondering but this is and was the family’s own decision only not yours, mine, or even the government’s.  Abortion is a personal decision with the majority vote going to the mother.  While I personally don’t believe in abortion I don’t think that decision is in the parameter of social, religious, or governmental interference.  Also, how can “one” put a price tag on the life of a child?  Maybe on the terminally ill adult witholding medical care because of expense could be justified by “one”.  But I sure wouldn’t want to be the “one” making that decision.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Robin-J-Sloan/1510646798 Robin J Sloan

    God bless you….crying my eyes out right now.  

  • http://www.facebook.com/kimwilkins1 Kim Underhill Wilkins

    Beautiful story and emotional too!  Lovely family.

  • Voxhumana

    I know you’re all excited with praise for this young couple and the girls. And what they’ve sacrificed is amazing. But did you ever stop to think that while this couple is producing babies at an ASTOUNDING rate, there are uncounted untold millions of babies going without the basics of care, food and water? While this young healthy family consumes unlimited resources for children that would have easily passed before birth, if nature had run its course. Just saying.

  • Voxhumana

    I know you’re all excited with praise for this young couple and the girls. And what they’ve sacrificed is amazing. But did you ever stop to think that while this couple is producing babies at an ASTOUNDING rate, there are uncounted untold millions of babies going without the basics of care, food and water? While this young healthy family consumes unlimited resources for children that would have easily passed before birth, if nature had run its course. Just saying.

  • Voxhumana

    I know you’re all excited with praise for this young couple and the girls. And what they’ve sacrificed is amazing. But did you ever stop to think that while this couple is producing babies at an ASTOUNDING rate, there are uncounted untold millions of babies going without the basics of care, food and water? While this young healthy family consumes unlimited resources for children that would have easily passed before birth, if nature had run its course. Just saying.

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OW4T2HP6LPGVFS4HA5IZIYIHMU Bedazzled

      You are an idiot. Nature did “take its course” and those 2 girls survived and thrived and were meant to be here. The only thing the medical establishment did was separate them. Not to mention over population is a myth created by the liberals. 

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OW4T2HP6LPGVFS4HA5IZIYIHMU Bedazzled

      You are an idiot. Nature did “take its course” and those 2 girls survived and thrived and were meant to be here. The only thing the medical establishment did was separate them. Not to mention over population is a myth created by the liberals. 

  • Karri

    One place in the article it mentions rude comments from strangers. WHO would make rude comments to young mother just because her twins are co-joined??
    This is an amazing story. I’m glad everything worked out for the girls and their family.

    • Patriot32

      Most likely disgusting dumbocrats.

  • MrsCarlvivian

    I am happy to hear both survived the operation.  They have humanity now.  I can’t believe how many are born and are not separated at birth.  I think a law should be passed that they should be conjoined at birth. The parents and the girls have patience, faith, love and civil rights.   

  • MrsCarlvivian

    I am happy to hear both survived the operation.  They have humanity now.  I can’t believe how many are born and are not separated at birth.  I think a law should be passed that they should be conjoined at birth. The parents and the girls have patience, faith, love and civil rights.   

  • Hoovrtilly

    Being an identicle twin I can only think that it so easily could have been me and my sister joined together.  Believe me, I can’t imagine being joined to her 24/7.  But I also know there is a special bond between us.  That will never be seperated from these two either.

  • Michele

    I’m in tears….so heartwarming…I have twin granddaughters…Can’t even imagine what everyone went through…Inspiring….Amazing…God Bless you all!

  • William Frank Wood

    Gee, this amazing story should be made for movie or TV program someday so we all can enjoy viewing that unique story!

  • Anonymous

    It is so good to read about life, for a change.

  • Anonymous

    It is so good to read about life, for a change.

  • Anonymous

    It is so good to read about life, for a change.

  • Gazerrad

    Thank you for the update on this outstanding family. I have read about them over time in the Reader’s Digest, Large Print Edition. So, it is exceptionally heart warming to hear about their further progress. It is interesting to note that as the girl’s needs have progressed, so has medicine’s advances. Let’s home that remains the same for the Herrin family and all those in need. My, what a wonderful world!

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/6LEKG63DYLZJ3NDDXKQNQMXWFQ Jean

    the first separation of conjoined twins occurred in 1689? I suspect that is a typo.

  • Jduduj

    amazing story& may god bless you.

  • Jduduj

    amazing story& may god bless you.

  • Anonymous

    Thank G-d! Couldn’t be happier at the outcome!

  • Face2770

    wow..that’s an incredible story. I admire the strength of the parents to be so young and face those kinds of decisions and worry….I hope the years ahead are blessed with health and happiness

  • Stringal

    Thank god they had/have money and insurance…. My daughter @ that age took off the training wheels on her bike and road 100 yards down our small dirt country road… and didn’t look back all the way, and I cryed watching her go…. Just symbolic, to me, of what was to come… I was blessed as were these kids by the affluance and luck of the draw… But, W/O, there isn’t even the circus for the life of a side show attraction…. And in the “third world”, what? In India they could have been very proffitable beggars…  Lucky kids… If they were mine they’de be in “IT” deep…. I couldn’t do it for’em and it’d kill me… 

  • Rmce

    Amazing to think that this could have happened to my 2 year old identical twin boys. God bless this family and I pray for a wonderful life ahead for all of them!

  • Robin Kauth

    I saw the documentary profiling this family on TLC.  The scene where they say goodbye (before the surgery) makes me cry just thinking about it.  What amazing little girls and parents!

  • Wes

    They are so fortunate to have been born into this family..Most young women today would have aborted them without a second thought.

    • GlamGail

      EARTH TO WES:
      No matter the circumstances, there is not a woman alive who would have, or has had, an abortion “without a second thought”.

      I guess that leaves you to conclude that own mother ended up giving you three thoughts. Lucky her.

  • BettyJMatthews

    Thanks to God and his presence through out the eyars to the entire family and medical group.

    Amen.