Easy come, easy go.
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Whether we win $500 million or $1 million, about 70 percent of us lose or spend all our money in five years or less.
Take a second chance.
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Always play the second-chance drawings. Some games require you to mail in your losing ticket. Others tell you to go online and â¨register the ticketâs serial number. People either donât know about the drawings or donât take the time to enter, so your odds of winning are always better.
We don't quit while we're ahead.
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Do we still play the lottery? Absolutely. And weâre sure weâre going to win again.
You will be exploitedâpossibly by your friends.
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I had one friend who told me this sob story about how behind she was on her local taxes, how they were going to take her house because she couldnât pay. After she left, I got on my computer, looked up her tax records, and saw that she wasnât behind. When I printed out that page and sent it to her, well, that was the end of our friendship.
A lot can seem like a little.
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If you win $6 million and find yourself in a room full of lottery winners who won $100 million or more, all of a sudden, you feel like the poor one. Itâs all relative.
We answer for our impulse purchases.
After we won the lottery, we bought an eight-bedroom, seven-bath, 10,000-square-foot mansion because we could, and it sounded amazing. Well, now weâre selling the eight-bedroom, seven-bath â¨mansion because itâs impractical for a family of four.
We are still looked down upon by the truly wealthy.
After we won and moved into an exclusive neighborhood, we planned a huge Fourth of July party and invited all our neighbors. None of them cameâthey thought we didnât earn our money.
We're sick of money questions.
It drives me nuts when people ask where I keep the money, how I spend it, and if I still have it. No one would dream of asking a CEO those questions.
Your friends will change with your lifestyle.
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Everyone who wins thinks theyâre going to have the same friends and do the same things. But if you have $100 million and you want to fly to Hong Kong for the weekend, you need to either find someone who can afford to go with you or be willing to subsidize someone. And subsidizing people gets old.
You may be forced into the spotlight.
If you think youâre going to win and remain anonymous, youâd â¨better check your state laws. Many states require that you do a news conference and hold up a big check.
'Tis better to give.
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Now that I can buy anything I want, Iâve learned that what â¨really mattersâand what I enjoy mostâis being able to do things that help other people.
Don't donate all at once.
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If you want to give a charity a big sum of money, never give it all at once. Itâs better to donate $100,000 a year for ten years so you can retain some control and make sure the cash is being spent wisely.
Who are we kidding? Life is great.
You havenât lived until someone picks up the laundry from your front porch and brings it back to you that night, completely done and neatly folded.
Sources: Donna Mikkin, who won $34.5 million in the New York State Lottery in 2007; Sandra Hayes, a social worker who split a $224 million Powerball with her coworkers in 2006 and wrote How Winning the Lottery Changed My Life; seven-time lottery game grand-prize winner Richard Lustig, who wrote Learn How to Increase Your Chances of Winning the Lottery; and Don McNay, a financial consultant to lottery winners and the author of Life Lessons from the Lottery.