The Introvert’s Power

They probably wouldn't like to hear it, but introverts are having a moment in the spotlight as new research shows their creative power.

Quiet by Susan CainWe may live in what Time writer Bryan Walsh calls the “land of the loud and the home of the talkative,” but social scientists have discovered that introverts are often better friends, wiser managers, and more creative thinkers than extroverts.

“Introverts are better at listening, and can spend long periods of time in solitary work, which turns out to be the best way to come up with fresh ideas or master a skill,” writes Walsh. “Introverts forge deep and rewarding relationships, and often make smarter decisions than extroverts, because they’re more cautious and deliberate.”

Just don’t call them shy, cautions Susan Cain, author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. Shy people have anxiety about social judgment, while introverts “are just differently social,” Cain told NPR. In other words, they’d simply rather be alone. Some sources estimate that 30 percent of people share these traits, including well known public figures like Joe DiMaggio and Gandhi, and many high-powered business leaders such as Bill Gates.

Are You An Introvert?
Answer True or False to these questions to find out:

1. I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities.

2. I often prefer to express myself in writing.

3. I enjoy solitude.

4. I seem to care less than my peers about wealth, fame and status.

5. I dislike small talk, but I enjoy talking in depth about topics that matter to me.

6. People tell me that I’m a good listener.

7. I’m not a big risk taker.

8. I enjoy work that allows me to dive in with few interruptions.

9. I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale with only one or two close friends or family members.

10. People describe me as soft-spoken or mellow.

11. I prefer not to show my work or discuss it with others until it is finished.

12. I dislike conflict.

13. I do my best work alone.

14. I tend to think before I speak.

15. I feel drained after being out and about, even if I’ve enjoyed myself.

16. I often let calls go to voice mail.

17. If I had to choose, I’d prefer a weekend with absolutely nothing to do to one with too many things scheduled.

18. I don’t enjoy multitasking.

19. I concentrate easily.

20. In classrooms, I prefer lectures to seminars.

Score: The more often you answered True, the more introverted you are. If you found yourself with a roughly equal number of True and False answers, then you may be an ambivert—a person who exhibits traits of both an introvert and an extrovert. Note: This informal quiz, excerpted from Quiet by Susan Cain, is not a scientifically validated personality test. The questions were formulated based on characteristics of introversion often accepted by contemporary researchers.

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23 thoughts on “The Introvert’s Power

  1. Is one of the questions really “I dislike conflict”? Maybe disliking confrontation could be a legitimate question but how does liking conflict make you an extrovert and how many people seriously like conflict?

  2. Is one of the questions really “I dislike conflict”? Maybe disliking confrontation could be a legitimate question but how does liking conflict make you an extrovert and how many people seriously like conflict?

    1. Because extroverts would likely thrive in a conflict, where there’s a lot of interaction and action.

  3. Just because I’m alone doesn’t mean that I’m lonely. Some people just don’t seem to understand that about me. And yes, I am exhausted after spending time with crowds of people or working with the public for any length of time. I work in a deli and I love to cook but waiting on people drains me.
     

  4. It is sad to think that the majority of the population do not understand an intoverts strengths.
    In the extrovert world that we live in, an introvert tends to be seen as odd or antisocial or unable to be a “team player.”  When in reality, the introvert is carefully evaluating the situation around them and after evaluating these situations they actually become a very stong and supportive part of the team.  

  5. i am a real introvert not surprised, i just got a new job and im having a hardtime making friends, i dont want to socialize, i need another job………again

  6. OMG…17 “true” out of 20!!! Makes ‘ya wonder how I’m even here joining this conversation, lol!

  7. I think this test is too viased into “true” answers, I ended up with too many of them, so , Am I introverted? I¨ll go to the river and think about it, alone.

  8. Introverted people tend to burrow more deeply into matters rather than dwell merely on the superficial aspects. It is far more fulfilling and enriching to exhaust one’s thoughts through writing rather than talking. 

    1. Ain’t it the truth, ain’t it the truth!!(to quote the cowardly lion–Wizard of Oz!!)

  9. I often wonder how people can do any creative thinking when they are running their mouths.

    1. THEY CAN’T–a BIG mouth is too busy shooting itself off to allow anything but senselessness out of it!!

    2. My brain actually shuts down when someone keeps yapping on and on, I literally can’t decipher what they’re saying anymore.

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