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His Own Medicine: A Doctor's Story of Healing

Dr. Eugene Alford had operated on thousands of patients. When an accident left him paralyzed, he learned about healing from the other side.

Editor's Note: Reader's Digest has learned that Dr. Eugene Alford, the doctor profiled below, has suffered a terrible tragedy: His son Charles, 16, was killed on February 13, in Carlsbad, Texas, when he lost control of a car he was driving. Charles's mother, Mary, survived the accident with minor injuries. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Alford family. Click to read Charles Alford's obituary in the Houston Chronicle. Donations in Charles' memory can be directed to the First Presbyterian Church (5300 Main Street, Houston, Texas 77004), in care of Charles Knox Alford, for youth mission trips.
--Posted on February 16, 2009


Whenever Eugene Alford needed to relax after a particularly grueling period of work, he'd drive to his ranch in Bellville, Texas, 70 miles west of his Houston home, and lose himself in farm chores. He didn't make it out there as often as he would have liked. As a plastic surgeon at Methodist Hospital, he'd performed 800 operations over the previous year. December had been especially busy, and he was booked solid in the OR for months ahead.

So on a chilly Sunday a few days after Christmas, Alford decided to forgo church in favor of a spin around his 80-acre property. At the wheel of his bright-orange tractor, he headed out through the pine bush and mesquite, intending to clear a trail for deer hunting.

As he cut through underbrush in the south pasture, Alford brought the tractor to a halt in front of a dead white oak standing in his path. He nudged the trunk with the tractor's front-end loader, expecting the 40-foot tree to topple neatly to the ground. Instead the top half of the oak swayed toward him. In seconds, more than a ton of hardwood slammed down on him, crushing his spine.

Pinned to the steering wheel, Alford could barely breathe. He tried to hit the brakes, but his legs failed to respond. When he found he could move his hands, he turned off the ignition, then with great effort pulled his cell phone from his shirt pocket and called his wife on speed dial. "Mary," he gasped, "a tree fell on me. My back is broken. I'm going to die."

"Don't quit!" she shouted. "We're coming to get you!" Alford promised to hold on, but he knew that if he went into shock, his chances were slim. The idea of leaving behind his wife and three teenage children was unbearable. A minute later, he called her back. "In case I don't make it," he said, "I have to tell you that I love you."

He closed his eyes and prayed.

Gene Alford, 49, grew up in Henderson, a small town in East Texas. His grandfather, John Rogers Alford, was a successful businessman and philanthropist, and his father carried on both traditions. Alford was raised to work hard and help others. "You didn't tell anybody you did it," he said of his parents' values. "You just did it."

After graduating from medical school, Alford built a lucrative career as an ear, nose, and throat specialist and a facial plastic surgeon at Methodist. In the summers, he and Mary, a dentist and former pediatric nurse, would join a church-sponsored medical mission to Honduras, where he operated on the needy in a rural clinic.

At home, Alford treated many prominent Houston residents, but he also waived his fee for less fortunate patients. Carolyn Thomas, for instance, went to see him with a large gauze bandage over a cavity in her face. She'd been shot by her boyfriend, who'd also killed her mother; the bullet had blown away Thomas's nose, upper jaw, and right eye. Reconstruction would have cost a million dollars, but Alford, his medical team, and his hospital did it for free.

Like many of Alford's patients, Thomas valued his empathy almost as much as his medical skill. "On days when I was down," she recalls, "he'd say, 'I know something's wrong. Are you missing your mother?' I could talk to him about stuff like that." Thomas became a spokeswoman for victims of domestic violence, and Alford appeared with her on The Oprah Winfrey Show and Larry King Live.

Now the man who had offered hope and comfort to so many was fighting to stay alive.

Alford was still conscious when his neighbors Kevin Wingo and Snuffy Garrett, alerted by Mary, hauled the tree off him. They were afraid that doing so would make Alford's injuries worse, but they went ahead when he said he'd die if they didn't. A rescue helicopter touched down minutes later, and Alford advised the paramedics on which drugs to administer to him. Then he blacked out.


He was flown to the trauma unit at Memorial Hermann-Texas Medical Center in Houston, then quickly transferred to Methodist. The tree had smashed Alford's T4 vertebra and damaged several others. His lower back had been bent so sharply that it pinched off the blood supply to the spinal cord, paralyzing him from the waist down. He'd also broken his collarbone and shoulder and eight ribs.

That night, Mary took John, 19, Bess, 17, and Charles, 15, to see their father in the ICU. Alford murmured reassurances, then passed out again. The family set up a vigil by his bedside. The next evening, an orthopedic spine specialist fused the vertebrae in Alford's middle back and reinforced them with titanium rods.

The operation was successful, but the patient was still in danger. Because Alford's lungs were bruised, doctors wanted to perform a tracheotomy and hook him up to a ventilator. With Alford still unconscious, it was up to Mary to give consent. She also okayed placing a filter in a vein near his heart in order to trap blood clots, another potentially lethal risk. Alford had always been the one to handle big medical decisions for the family. "I thought, He's supposed to be giving me instructions about this," Mary says. "I felt horribly alone."

After almost two weeks in the ICU, Alford awoke, and his condition improved enough for him to be taken off the ventilator. He was soon moved across the street to a rehabilitation unit, where he began physical therapy and learned to use a wheelchair.

He confronted his new reality one afternoon as he watched an NFL game on TV from his hospital bed. He had no movement or feeling below his navel. His doctors couldn't say if he would ever recover them entirely. "I wondered, Will I ever be able to go back to work?" he recalls. "Will I be able to be a surgeon again? Will I be able to be a husband and father?"

In February 2008, six weeks after the accident, Alford returned to his 100-year-old home in Houston. At first, he was so weak that he could sit up only when strapped into a wheelchair; Mary lifted him in and out of it using a sling attached to an electric winch. In constant pain and with frequent muscle spasms, he spent his time in a bed set up in the family room. "Every day was exactly the same," Mary says. "Every bit of our energy was focused on just surviving."

Before the accident, Alford had been a solidly built six-footer and was used to being in charge. Now, entirely dependent on others, he fell into despair. "If it weren't for my wife and kids, I would have killed myself," he says.

But then the love started pouring in. Alford's brother David, 40, a businessman in Henderson, maintained a blog to provide updates about Alford's recovery. Over the next three months, he received a staggering 40,000 messages from colleagues, former patients and their families, acquaintances, even strangers. Carolyn Thomas wrote, "When you're back in the OR, I want to be the first one on the table."

Friends took hot meals to the Alfords every evening and drove Charles to school and to lacrosse and other activities. One woman at church gave the family a wheelchair-ready van that had been used by her late husband. "Anything I've done for other people has been repaid to me a million times over," Alford now marvels.

The outpouring raised his spirits. It also gave Mary a new perspective on him. For years, Alford's schedule of 15-hour days hadn't left him much time for her and the kids. "I'd just about decided you liked work more than us," Mary told him one day over lunch. "But now I realize you didn't want to leave the hospital because there were so many folks that needed you. You couldn't just abandon them."

Alford was moved by his wife's understanding—and grateful for one thing about the accident: It gave him an opportunity to focus on the people he loved most. When Mary wheeled him to the garage for a shower that she gave him by hose, or when one of his children helped him dress in the morning, Alford says, it was as if God had used the accident to send him a message: "You need to slow down and appreciate what you've got at home."

The couple refurbished their house with ramps, a wheelchair-accessible bathroom, and an elevator. They bought an extended-cab pickup truck and fitted it with a wheelchair hoist, a swiveling driver's seat, and hand controls so Alford could drive himself.

But Alford's goal was to make such adjustments temporary. After a month of physical therapy, he graduated from an electric to a manual wheelchair. One day last winter, he wiggled his toes. "It was huge," he remembers. "Mary and I just cried and cried, we were so happy." More sensation and movement returned in his legs and feet.

The daily workouts built strength in his back and abdominal muscles, improving his ability to hold himself upright. Soon he was able to stand with the aid of a tubular steel frame; seated in his chair, he could now draw his legs toward his chest.

In May, Alford began the next phase of treatment—an experimental regimen developed by the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation. Each morning, he went to the Institute for Rehabilitation and Research at Memorial Hermann. By putting a paralyzed patient through his paces, therapists hoped to grow new neuromuscular connections.

When Alford arrived at the clinic, a physical therapist and a team of assistants would strap him into a harness suspended above a treadmill. They swung his legs at a steady pace as Alford, eyes fixed on a full-length mirror, struggled to help by lifting a thigh with each stride.

After three months of this routine, Alford's coordination had improved markedly. He felt ready to pick up a scalpel again, with the hospital's approval. He started small, with an office procedure on a friend's son who had injured his nose. The operation went smoothly. A few days later, using a wheelchair specially designed to lift him into position, he joined a colleague in performing an hour-long optic nerve decompression at Methodist. "It felt wonderful," Alford says with a smile. "It was just so good to be back in that environment."

Still, his limitations were never far from his mind. On the night that Hurricane Ike struck Houston with 110 mph winds, Alford's bedroom window exploded, showering him and Mary with glass. "I watched my wife and my 15-year-old son use a card table, a Boy Scout tent, and duct tape to cover the window," he says. "I realized that I was different forever. I also realized that Mary was different forever—and she could handle it."

Alford still goes for four hours of rehab every morning and spends his evenings stretching and riding a motorized stationary bike to keep muscle spasms at bay. But in the hours between, he sees patients or performs surgeries—as many as five a week. "My stamina has come back," he says. "I don't hurt like I used to."

On a recent afternoon in a Methodist Hospital operating room, he repaired the deviated septum of Darren DeFabo, a 40-year-old Houston engineer. Leaning in from his elevated chair, Alford cut through the bone and cartilage, working quickly and methodically, occasionally exchanging a comment with a nurse or a surgical tech.

With Creedence Clearwater Revival's "Fortunate Son" playing in the background, Alford sutured in temporary splints to support his patient's nose after the operation. In all, the procedure took 22 minutes. "It was very normal, embarrassingly simple," Alford remarked as he wheeled himself out of the OR.

He's eager to do more complex surgeries and plans to increase his workload. Walking remains uncertain. "I always tell him if I had a crystal ball, I'd be a millionaire," says Marcie Kern, one of his physical therapists. Still, the doctor considers himself a lucky man.

"I wondered if I could practice medicine as well as I used to, and I think I've answered that question," Alford says. "My brain works, my hands work. I'm closer than ever to Mary and my children. I've got so much. Why should I feel sorry for myself?"


Comments :
By Patti S.J. Mackenzie, 11/17/2009, 7:23 PM EST

I too broke my back in 1991. It's been a long road back and it's always an ongoing uphill battle. Unfortunately, this state (WI) does not allow handicapped people to make a fresh start no matter what. Sad. Truly sad. I would like to know if you could provide me with a network of online support for people who have broken their backs? Sincerely Patti S.J. Mackenzie 2009_mac@live.com

By quijanofamily, 02/19/2009, 11:01 PM EST

Embrace God's love during this time of your loss; your precious Charliebear. This too shall pass. The love and fond memories of your precious Charliebear will be there in your thoughts and heart. Embrace God's love, He loves you! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2H_8d6o2HQ&feature=related I dedicate this song in Charlie's memory.

By anwrose, 02/16/2009, 4:36 PM EST

For those who wanted updates on the death of Dr. Alford's son. http://www.gosanangelo.com/news/2009/feb/13/breaking-news-rollover-near-carlsbad-sends-one/

By anwrose, 02/16/2009, 4:35 PM EST

For those who wanted more information regarding the death of Dr. Alford's son. http://www.gosanangelo.com/news/2009/feb/13/breaking-news-rollover-near-carlsbad-sends-one/

By moemandy, 02/16/2009, 11:51 AM EST

Please tell us where we can get updates on Mrs. Alford. This is so tragic! I pray for this family as they go through this latest trial.

By Amanda215, 02/15/2009, 9:52 PM EST

I am one of Dr. Alford's patients and I pray his family will recover from this. He is the warmest man I know and he has become part of my family as well. Please keep him in your prayers.

By Methmaid, 02/13/2009, 9:44 PM EST

I received the executive e-mail from THe Methodist Hospital today as well, It seems that many of us are searching the internet for news and found this site. I am crying as I type this. G-d help this family.

By dalanadee, 02/13/2009, 7:18 PM EST

I am praying for Dr. Alford's family. I work for the Methodist hospital and read this story today when I received it from a hospital executive. When I got the e-mail from my daughter's school regarding the death of a student and I saw his name, I was hoping that it wasn't Dr. Alford's son. I was so inspired by his story and I am so saddened by this tragedy which has befallen a family which has already been through so much. I wish his wife a speedy and complete recovery. God bless them all.

By afults, 02/13/2009, 5:49 PM EST

Please keep Dr. Alford in your prayers as today his son, Charles, was killed in a car accident in West, Texas. His wife, Mary, is at San Angelo Hospital.

By plainsue, 02/12/2009, 9:15 PM EST

Mary Alford is my niece. Not only is she strong and courageous, but her faith and sense of humor have provided "backbone" for their family through Gene's recovery. I am so proud of both of them.

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