How to Spot a Liar (page 3 of 3)

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Lying is such a central characteristic of life

Check for Emotional Leaks

The micro-expressions that flit across people's faces often expose what they're truly feeling or thinking, as opposed to what they'd like us to believe, explains Ekman. But these ultra-brief facial movements, some lasting a quarter of a second, aren't a cinch to spot. Even professionals trained in the art of lie detection -- police personnel, judges, attorneys -- can't always isolate them. And deliberate liars tend to layer on other expressions, like smiling, to further disguise a lie.

Still, there are giveaways. "It isn't the frequency of a smile that matters, but the type of smile," says Ekman. "There are smiles of true enjoyment, which involve not just the lips but the muscles that orbit the eyes. And there are masking smiles, which are made to cover fear, anger, sadness or disgust. If you're a good observer, you can see a trace of one of those emotions leak through."

So here's hoping the next time someone lobs a lie our way, we'll know just how to catch it.
From Reader's Digest - August 2006
 
Reporting by Nancy long Tafoyaa
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It greatly depends on how well you know someone. If my husband were to lie to me, I would pick it up in a second. If I walked up to a group of people and they all got very quiet, and then one left, I would know they were talking either about me, or about something they did not want me to know. The main thing is to observe them, and do it more than once.

By ejustice, on 03/14/2009

Sometimes an odd hesitation only means you're not quite sure about how to describe what you are looking at. Everyone isn't poetic. It could also be normal in this situation to have vocal change or a change in speech rate if you knew more about a particular bud, or if you found a flower you loved. Don't judge on a few minutes of something so simple. You will become distrustful.

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