Creative Expression
Downloading FunThe family computer is becoming an institution, and with the drop in computer prices, it's become more commonplace to have more than one computer in a home. There are reams of fun sites for children and teens to visit, but you want to be the one in control.
Consider having a family computer set up in a den, a family room, or a corner of the kitchen -- some place where a parent is usually available. That way you can be present for help or questions and can subtly monitor the sites your children are investigating.
If you have more than one child, make sure you set up a schedule for sharing time on the computer. It's a good idea to put a time limit on using the computer. Though computers can be interactive and educational, sitting is still sitting, and recent studies show that many children are not getting enough physical activity. But used well, a family computer can provide hours of fun and a learning experience to boot.
Making Music
It's wonderful when a child expresses an interest in taking music lessons, and it is definitely something to encourage, but you shouldn't invest in a musical instrument until you know this isn't just a passing fancy. Most music stores rent instruments, so call around for the best deal.
Secondhand Sounds
Buying a musical instrument secondhand can offer great savings, but be sure to ask a music teacher or someone who actually plays the instrument to check it out before you buy. And be wary of used guitars for sale on the cheap; they are often warped so badly that the strings are as much as an inch from the frets, making them nearly impossible to play.
The Sound of Your Voice
Make tape recordings of your children's favorite stories, or record yourself telling about your childhood or special events or holidays. For extra fun, tape the family singing favorite songs. When you're going out for an evening or are away on a business trip, these tapes can provide a lot of comfort to young children, with very little investment of money. Further, have grandparents make some tapes to keep faraway grandchildren connected.
Revisit Your Childhood
Young children love to hear stories about when their parents or grandparents were little. (Savor this time -- it does not last.) Put together an album of your childhood and share those times with your own child or grandchild. Even better, go to a copy shop and make a copy of each photo on a piece of paper with space below. Type or write the story beneath the picture. Purchase an inexpensive album and make a book of your life for your child or grandchild to keep forever.



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