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Editor’s Note: Father Time

A note from Reader's Digest editor-in-chief, Liz Vaccariello.

By Liz Vaccariello from Reader's Digest | February 2012
Liz VaccarielloPhotographed by Melanie Dunea/CPIEditor-in-Chief Liz Vaccariello
I lost my dad last year.

Sure, lots of memorable stuff happened to me in 2011. My daughters started first grade. I read and will never forget Unbroken. I did a pull-up for the first time!

But Dad’s passing? That defines last year for me. It signals a shift in all the many things uniquely us: Michigan football. Cleveland Stadium mustard. Knowing how to parallel park, change a tire, and balance a checkbook the “right way.” Handwritten letters on his Ludlow Antiques stationery to his homesick firstborn at U of M. An appreciation for Neil Diamond (shhh). And, did I mention, Michigan football?

“Good job on the Today show, honey,” he’d say. “Very informative. Was that a new blouse?”

Daughter and Dad, Outer Banks, August 2010

I came to realize the expanse of the void when, late last fall, I got this job — the job of being the editor-in-chief of your Reader’s Digest, the most trusted magazine in America. I was humbled by the opportunity. Incredulous, really. I texted friends, war-dialed my sister. But first I told Mom, who said the one thing I needed to hear: “I wish your father were here. He would be so proud, honey.”

That’s my intent, as I shepherd Reader’s Digest and its website, books, and apps through the coming years. I hope to do him — and you — proud. Oh, and I’ll try to keep the Michigan football stuff to a minimum. Though Tom Brady? Michigan. I’m just sayin’.

Write to Liz at liz@rd.com

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Your Comments

  • Dawn Fliehr

    Just read your note about your dad. I feel your what you are going through. I lost my dad too last May. He was so great. So mellow, a great teacher for life, a veteran of 30yrs in the Navy, so family. Our family misses him, but have learned so much from him. Remember all those things he taught you. Oh and our/his team was the Green Bay Packers. I was so glad he saw the Pack win the Super Bowl last year. My mom is with us now and we talk about him a lot.

  • Theofiel F. Dib

    Many times I have said,to my family,myself and friends and others” I wish my dad was here to see this”. He passed away suddenly at fifty one while I was in the Navy, I was twenty one. Much has transpired over the ensuing years, marriage, children, graduations, weddings, etc., all the normal events of life we were not able to share. Yet as I look at his picture hanging in the family room, I see his smiling face looking down at me and I say,”Dad I sure wish you were here, I hope I have made you proud. I’m sixty four now yet when I look at his photo I’m still that twenty one year old sailor and I know that he is still smiling down at me and my family.

  • Dixie Crompton

     Dear Liz:  I liked your editorial and I  the 150 words or less on Best Life Stories.  I wanted
    Nicole Malato to know that she doesn’t have to sit and wait on the breast cancer.  My cousin
    cured her own with the help of Hoxey center now in Tijuana as FDA doesn’t think they should
    be in the U.S. She alkalizes her body with foods like Pesto instead of tomato based acid sauces.
    This will help her reach her dreams sooner.  Having Xrays every 3 months tells you if you are on
    the right track.  She watched her cancer shrink, twice, 10 years apart in separate breasts!!!!
    She cured her husband’s melanoma on his temple with the same diet and they could watch that.
    Search for foods in the alkali side of diet to reach your goal.  Best of luck to get there faster!!
    Dixie Crompton  

  • Chiefgmg

    Dear Liz

    Your article brought tears to this old veteran’s eyes and a lump in my throat with pride that you wrote this article which will be read around the world. God bless you dear for your remarks that praise our military and honor your dad.

    I am a 22 year retired USArmy soldier that appreciates wonderful comments about our military and the American way of life.

    God bless and keep us in your heart and mind

    Gordon Gober

    Chiefgmg @aol.com

  • Chiefgmg

    Dear Liz

    Your article brought tears to this old veteran’s eyes and a lump in my throat with pride that you wrote this article which will be read around the world. God bless you dear for your remarks that praise our military and honor your dad.

    I am a 22 year retired USArmy soldier that appreciates wonderful comments about our military and the American way of life.

    God bless and keep us in your heart and mind

    Gordon Gober

    Chiefgmg @aol.com