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A Parent’s Worst Nightmare

The pediatrics clinic at the hospital in Bethesda, Maryland, was jammed. Alice Velasquez, dressed in Army fatigues, passed…

By Salley Shannon from Reader's Digest January 2007

The pediatrics clinic at the hospital in Bethesda, Maryland, was jammed. Alice Velasquez, dressed in Army fatigues, passed four-month-old Liliana to her husband, Miguel, so she could stretch and check the clock. They had been in a waiting room at National Naval Medical Center for over an hour and a half. Now, Alice was late for duty at the Pentagon.

“Don’t worry, honey, it won’t be much longer,” Miguel told Alice. Then he kissed Liliana, and she began to coo.

A few days before, Alice had found two little bumps over Liliana’s left ribs. They felt bony, and bone problems ran in Alice’s family. The couple decided to ask the doctor to do x-rays during the “well baby” visit.

The VelasquezesPhotographed by Stephanie Kuykendal
 Husband and wife were a study in contrasts: Alice, blonde, outgoing, excitable; Miguel, olive-skinned, quiet, placid. He kept her calm until their turn finally came. Alice took Liliana. Miguel grabbed the baby’s diaper bag and toys, and they went into the exam room. It was the last moment of ordinary family routine they would have for the next five years.

Something Terribly Wrong
“Healthy, four-month-old female, normal growth and development, gaining appropriately but on the smallish side,” say the notes of the intern who first examined Liliana on that day, February 3, 2000. The intern dismissed their fears about the bumps, but Alice persisted. A pediatrician, Dr. Paul Reed, agreed to order x-rays.

“I knew as soon as I saw Dr. Reed’s face that something was terribly wrong,” Alice says. The x-rays showed that several of Liliana’s ribs were broken. “These injuries are nonaccidental,” Dr. Reed told them. Someone has squeezed your baby, probably to make her stop crying, Alice recalls him saying. The doctors did more tests to check for other injuries. Alice began sobbing loudly.

People in white coats peppered Miguel with questions. What had happened? Did he drink a lot? Get angry? Shake the baby? Miguel was shocked speechless.

“We Were So Young and Naive”
Because fractures stemming from compression injuries are often an indicator of child abuse, and noting Miguel’s seeming lack of emotion, Dr. Reed considered this a typical case of paternal mistreatment. He gave his opinion to his supervisor, Dr. Barbara Craig, head of the Armed Forces Center for Child Protection.

“We were so young and naive,” Alice says now, ruefully. She was 20, Miguel, 28.

The radiologist reading the next round of x-rays said Liliana also had a broken wrist and possibly a broken leg. This report, later found to be inaccurate, further convinced doctors of abuse.

Parents Questioned
Liliana was admitted to the pediatric unit at Walter Reed Army Medical Center for her protection, and another doctor examined her there. A summary of Liliana’s exam relates the following: no swelling, no bruises, no cuts, no burns. No evidence of pain. Well-nourished. Growing well. Not withdrawn. Clean clothes, earrings, painted toenails, very clean and well kept. Smiling, feeding, alert. Both parents attended all OB visits before the birth. Both parents bring her to clinic appointments.

The record also notes Alice mentioned bone problems in her family. Yet, medical experts would later testify, none of the many doctors at the Naval Medical Center or at Walter Reed recorded a thorough medical history, nor did they do a “differential diagnosis” to rule out what, besides abuse, could have caused Liliana’s broken ribs. All other tests, including a brain scan, were normal.

Well into the night, a doctor, two social workers from the Alexandria, Virginia, Child Protective Services, two Alexandria police detectives, and a military police officer all questioned the Velasquezes. They asked open-ended questions like, “How do you think this might have happened?”

See also:
10 Questions You Shouldn’t Ask a New Mom
The Good Fight: A Married Man Argues for Conflict
10 Things Never to Say to a Pregnant Woman
50 Secrets Your Nurse Won’t Tell You

Your Comments

  • Maegan

    This is insane, our government like his makes me sick and disgraces me as an American. Countless evidence PROVED Alice and Miguel were not abusive parents and STILL they are ignored that, as if they wanted to purposefully shame their name.

  • Fern

    ugh this just proves how lazy some government people are….instead of doing differential tests they just had to “be right” couldn’t step off their high horse and be wrong.  I’m glad the Velasquez’s are living a better life and are not bitter towards the military/govt.  Shame on them!

  • phineas

    What a hideous mess, and not atypical of the legal system’s treatment of families. Just think of all the people who have been caught in the system with far worse outcomes.

    “the Department of Social Services had made an error. It was the first such ruling on an abuse case in the history of the state.”

  • BR

    Again a case where the government and social workers get away without any punishment. These cases happen all the time and not make the media. These socail workers deserved prison time and put on the abuse registry themselves. Social workers are many times the true abuses. The doctors and nurses caring for her need their licenses permanetly revoked. When will our officials start standing up for what is right.

  • Gueneal

    to respond to the article and the above comments, The government is going to get away with whatever it wants. Abuse will happen and nothing can be done about it. People will abuse the system and get away with it and as this article shows it is easy. I’m happy for the Velasquezes. They got very lucky but are most definitely the minority. The government will keep on doing what it wants and no one will ever change that.

  • Doug

    Doug,

    I’m a Chaplain in the Army.  If a Soldier comes to me with an issue like this my blood boils.  Part of my purpose is to be an advocate for the voiceless (junior ranks don’t have much voice).  I have raised issues of wrongdoing and abuse and see the issue gets rectified.  I wonder if the mother contacted her chaplain or even knew who he/she was.  Perfect storms like this happen occasionally and that is one role of the chaplain – to be an advocate for the Soldier.

  • Justagirl

    I am a social worker and have been for a few years. I am in no way, shape or form a physician and I rely heavily on what doctors tell me in regard to abuse cases. I agree that the care the child received from the foster parents should have been looked into as that appears to be a blatant example of child neglect/abuse. With that said, please do not blame the players, blame the game. Unfortunately, as social workers that work for government entities we are bound by laws that are passed by the elected officials and must follow them to the letter or suffer potential criminal charges ourselves. Social work is a thankless job and not all social workers are good, but most of us are in the field to protect the most vulnerable populations.

    I feel for the family that went through this horrific tragedy, but I am glad that they have all been reunited and are slowly healing.

  • Justagirl

    I am a social worker and have been for a few years. I am in no way, shape or form a physician and I rely heavily on what doctors tell me in regard to abuse cases. I agree that the care the child received from the foster parents should have been looked into as that appears to be a blatant example of child neglect/abuse. With that said, please do not blame the players, blame the game. Unfortunately, as social workers that work for government entities we are bound by laws that are passed by the elected officials and must follow them to the letter or suffer potential criminal charges ourselves. Social work is a thankless job and not all social workers are good, but most of us are in the field to protect the most vulnerable populations.

    I feel for the family that went through this horrific tragedy, but I am glad that they have all been reunited and are slowly healing.

  • Justagirl

    I am a social worker and have been for a few years. I am in no way, shape or form a physician and I rely heavily on what doctors tell me in regard to abuse cases. I agree that the care the child received from the foster parents should have been looked into as that appears to be a blatant example of child neglect/abuse. With that said, please do not blame the players, blame the game. Unfortunately, as social workers that work for government entities we are bound by laws that are passed by the elected officials and must follow them to the letter or suffer potential criminal charges ourselves. Social work is a thankless job and not all social workers are good, but most of us are in the field to protect the most vulnerable populations.

    I feel for the family that went through this horrific tragedy, but I am glad that they have all been reunited and are slowly healing.

  • TXbywayofMS

    I am also a social worker and have been for 10+ years and I can say that you are wrong. If you have an inkling of suspicion that a doctor might be wrong you can call them out on it. Its called due diligence. Social work is a thankless job. The thanks comes from being able to sleep at night with a clear conscience. 

  • NRG68

    Thank you, TX!!  I, too, am a retired medical social worker. Yes, it is our job to think for ourselves, and not just take what the doctor says. This child was failed due to a (large part) whimpy SW. We are called advocates for a reason. It sounds like the SW was looking out for her image, more than for the family. Stand up, Social workers, the disenfranchised need us! I’m proud to have been the one going against the majority, when the majority was wrong! :)

  • Katoconnor67

    I feel sorry for them. The same thing happened to us. I noticed my 1 week old daughter’s ankle was red and slightly swollen. I took her to my pediatrician who sent us for an x ray. Well, the stupid radioloy tech had her hand right over the ankle so nothing abnormal showed up (except a good xray of her hand!). The doctor sent us to Childrens Hospital for further care since they didn’t know what was causing the swelling. The xray there showed an “8-10 day healing fracture of the tibia”. Remember, she was 7 days old! We were accused of child abuse and forced to stay at the hospital for 3 days for a Cat scan of her head, full body xray to check for other broken bones and a retina scan. Two detectives came at 2am to interview me, my husband and I had to undergo psychiatric evaluations, a social worker inspected our home while we were at the hospital and interviewed my mother and other children, and then, after we were “released” from the hospital, my husband and I had to go to see a doctor at Family criminal Services to be interivewed and have our daughter examined again. CRAZY PEOPLE in the system. They threatened to take her away, but thank God did not. Everyone at the hospital treated us like criminals….awful experience!!! Our case was closed after a few months and the investigation was inconclusive. Makes me afraid to take my kids to the doctor!!!