Operation Order to My Deployed Husband
Civilian Home Group, West (CIVHOMGRU), has recently identified threat “military brain,” aka MILBRAIN, a condition that hinders communication and family reintegration and that requires immediate and ongoing resolution. Current unit is composed of:
• Civilian leader MOM
• Two rogue operatives known as Operative–1st Born and Operative–2nd Born
• DAD (deployed)
Prepare for reintegration of DAD into CIVHOMGRU by:
• Disintegration of MILBRAIN
• Introduction of counter-components DADBRAIN and HUSBANDBRAIN
• Reintroduction of concept “feel”
• Suppression of dictatorial hierarchy, oligarchy, and misogyny
Accomplish DAD homecoming 2011 with goal of fostering mental and emotional health of the family unit and avoiding any further loss of spousal consortium.
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It is the intent of these maneuvers to prepare all members of the team for reintegration.
A. MOM, Operative–1st Born, and Operative–2nd Born will each practice elimination of all expectations related to basic everyday interactions. This will be accomplished by standing in front of a brick wall and attempting to engage it in conversation and elicit sympathy and/or compassion and attempting to get it to respond to external stimuli, touch, and/or tears.
B. DAD will increase situational awareness of social and nonverbal communications of others. This will be accomplished by standing in front of a mirror, making eye contact, and practicing HOME phrases such as “I’m sorry,” “Let’s get through this together,” and “I understand what you’re saying.”
Upon completion of these basic maneuvers, DAD should progress to more advanced maneuvers such as SMIRK
and WINK, the “HUBBA-HUBBA” (two successive eyebrow raises), and NODDING.
IV. SERVICE SUPPORT
The critical supporting actors and services required to sustain the unit during this operation include:
• DAD‘s emotive alter ego, which has been suppressed for the past year
• MOM‘s noncontrolling alter ego, which has been suppressed for the past year
• Operative–1st Born and Operative–2nd Born‘s obedient alter egos, which have been suppressed for the past year
Upon reentry to the CIVHOMGRU, DAD should consider the following services and materials for future maneuvers DATE and WOO:
• Class I (subsistence): fine-dining establishments, wine bars, candlelight, or sunset-view venues
• Class II (individual equipment): razor, aftershave, deodorant, mouthwash, elbow cream, and civilian clothing
• Class III (major end items): flowers, jewelry, chocolate, handwritten notes or cards, and perfume
In preparation for such availability of services, DAD may spend time on the Internet reviewing what these items look like, how they are utilized, and where they can be obtained upon delivery to the assembly point.
V. COMMAND AND CONTROL
Upon reintegration, unit commanders MOM and DAD are expected to operate in a JOINT ENVIRONMENT for all operational and tactical maneuvers.
The higher unit commander is GOD. If you suffer from the delusion that you are GOD,
then knock it off. You are not. Your spouse and children are not subordinates; they are your support.
This operation specifically prohibits use of the following signals: silence, thousand-mile stare, dirty looks, shark eyes, loss of consciousness during conversation, and drama (aka “pyrotechnics”) of any kind.
Mom, COMMANDER, CIVHOMGRU, WEST
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