25 Things Your Kid’s Principal Is Secretly Thinking
Straight from the principal's office: Use these tips for a better school year.
A lot of homework isn’t always a sign of a good school
Some parents think that if their child is given a lot of work to do at home it’s a sign that the school they are attending is serious and has high expectations. However, a lot of research shows that homework is not the key to driving student success.
Attendance and reading are very important
The greatest indicators of student performance and success are attendance and reading at home. Make sure that your kids read independently every night and that they are getting enough sleep and nutrients to stay healthy and attend school every day.
We’re all on the same team
If heated situations ever arise, it might seem like the teacher and parent or principal and parent are on two separate teams, but really we all just want the best for your child. At the end of the day, teachers, principals, and families are all working as hard as they can because they want the best for the kids.
If you want to talk to me about a problem, schedule a morning appointment when I’m fresh
By the afternoon, I can get pretty frazzled. These are 33 things your child’s teacher won’t tell you.
Of course I’m going to disapprove of a child missing class for vacation
What I won’t tell you is that I encouraged my own daughter to pull her kids out of school to visit me during my break. These teacher-approved tricks will get your kids ready for back to school.
We had a young man struggling to focus during year-end tests
“My underwear is on backward,” he said. That’s the problem with all this testing: We’re being judged by assessments taken by kids who may have their underwear on backward. If your child is struggling in school, here is what they should be telling their teacher.
The child you see at home?
That’s almost never the one we see at school. These are signs you’re raising an emotionally intelligent child.
Don’t tell me your child would never lie to you
All kids make mistakes, and great students are often the ones most afraid to tell their parents when they screw up.
My biggest pet peeve?
Parents who complain to me before talking to the teacher. This is what teachers want your kids to know. It changes with every grade.
Don’t ask me to make a teacher forgive a homework assignment or not to teach a specific subject
We don’t dictate to teachers; we work with them.
I’ve had a few students who were bullies
We suspend them again and again, but it’s very tough to expel a student. The truth is, they have a right to an education. You have to read about this teacher’s brilliant strategy to stop bullying.
Kids are easy
It’s the parents who are tough. They’re constantly trying to solve their kids’ problems for them.
What do I love about this job?
I can influence and inspire kids and adults, help work through problems, and find solutions. And every day I can pop into a classroom where something interesting is going on. What other job gives you all of that?
C’mon parents, this is your child’s homework, not yours
We know what a seventh-grader can do, and we know what an adult with an engineering degree can do, so please don’t do your child’s work for him. Kids need to make mistakes and struggle through things; it’s how they learn. Check out these hilarious real-life teacher stories.
Principals never know what the day will hold
One minute you’re mopping up vomit, the next you’re in a special ed meeting, and the next you’re dealing with two kids who got in a fight. Then you shovel snow off the sidewalk in front of school, you meet with teachers to decide whether to change the language arts curriculum, and you play basketball with a group of kids. And that’s just in the first two hours.
The last thing I want to do on the sidelines of a basketball game is have a conference with you about your child
If you have something to talk to me about, come by my office during the day or even better, make an appointment. Here are 19 back-to-school secrets only parents of “A” students know.
When an unruly student gets sent to my office, my favorite strategy is not to engage right away
I just let them sit there in agony while I keep working. It gives them a chance to calm down and de-escalate. Try it at home; it works.
For years, folks have said that if you can’t do anything else, you can always go into education
The truth is, we’re not the leftovers, and this is what most of us wanted to do. I had been accepted to law school, but I chose this.
It seems that more parents are working crazy hours and neglecting their children
Then a lot of them try to make up for that by coming to their child’s rescue when there’s an issue with a teacher, coming in here and hollering at us.
As a principal, you’re expected to know about bus routes, curriculum, communication, school lunches, adolescent development, conflict management, learning disabilities, and more
You have to be an expert on everything, sometimes in the same 20 minutes. Get even more informed about what your child does during the school day and learn about the 12 things your school bus driver wishes you knew.
Sources: Principals in Georgia, Utah, Florida, and New York and former principals in New Hampshire and Vermont, Lisa Bonnifield, Principal, KIPP BOLD Academy, Newark NJ