How to Say No to Annoying Things in Your Life (Without Feeling Like Everyone’s Going to Hate You)
From school bake sales to unwanted projects at work, here's how to keep your "no" short and sweet with zero guilt.
Say no: Politely decline
This one is genius. He’s asking the favor, but you thank him for thinking of you as you firmly close the door. It works with just about any kind of request, and the asker rarely knows how to respond—hence, no push back!
Say no: Suggest a smaller commitment
Here you’re making it crystal clear that you aren’t available for the task being pressed upon you, but you’re not completely blowing off the person in need either. No one can hate you when you’re offering to lend a hand elsewhere.
Say no: Make it about yourself
We’ve all heard this one before. But a time-honored rejection can still be genuine if you first compliment the asker or subject of the question, and then emphasize that it’s not the right fit or that you don’t have time in your schedule.
Say no: Leave the door open
Here you are genuinely interested in keeping this option open to revisit when you have more time, but it lets you prioritize other things first. Plus, it puts the onus on you to reach out again, meaning you won’t be pummeled with persistent nagging from the asker.