7 Truly Unusual Ways to Be Happy

We've heard about meditating, exercising, and decluttering our lives in our quest to be happy. Tried all those? Then these quirky tips are for you.

By Adrienne Farr
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    Rub your ears!

    Ear reflexology, the practice of stimulating those pressure points on the ear that are believed to correspond to various parts of the body (foot, bladder, even your trachea), also can work to reduce negative emotions (rejection, self-pity, even "bearing the burden of the world"). To counteract depression or a feeling of being overwhelmed, try massaging the outer ring of each ear.

    Lunch on the beach!

    If you eat at your desk, your happiness index score tumbles, according to a British study from the University of Sussex. Take your sandwich to a park bench, dine at a restaurant, or enjoy your meal at home to up your happiness quotient. The most happy midday meal? Find a spot at the shore.

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    Tell yourself you're having more sex than your neighbors!

    According to research from the University of Colorado Boulder, survey data from over 15,000 people showed that those having sex two to three times per month were 33 percent more likely to be happy than those who did not have sex during the previous 12 months. Interestingly, people also reported having higher happiness levels not just by increasing the frequency two to three times a week, but also when they believed they were getting more than their peers.


    Eat grass-fed meat!

    An Australian study of 1,000 women found a strong correlation between mental well-being and red meat. Researchers noticed that participants who ate less than the recommended amounts of beef or lamb (between two and four ounces, three to four times a week) were twice as likely to suffer from depression or anxiety disorders. After ruling out various factors and other proteins, they believed that the animals' grass-fed diet factored into the results, as it produces meat higher in key nutrients like omega-3s.

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    Move to Norway!

    Norway has been crowned "The Happiest Country in the World" by a Legatum Institute Prosperity study, which compared 142 countries around the globe. (The United States currently ranks 12th.) Why Norway? Maybe it's because 95 percent of residents are satisfied with their personal freedoms, or that 74 percent of Norwegians believe most people are trustworthy. It could also be country's natural beauty, including spectacles like the Northern Lights.

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    Sell real estate!

    What's the happiest job in the country? Real-estate agent, according to Forbes. The jobs site CareerBliss.com polled more than 65,000 people on workplace happiness factors like office environment and compensation, and found real-estate agents at the top of the list. Other careers to consider for maximum joy include senior quality assurance manager, senior sales representative, and construction supervisor; the lowest levels came in for customer service associates, marketing coordinators, and legal assistants, among others.


    Play video games!

    When polling casual gamers with an average age of 77, 67 percent reported that video-game playing decreased their depression, and increased their well-being and social functioning.


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    Your Comments

    • Afters

      Reading this makes me Happy!! unusual ways indeed!coffee really makes me happy,good company and yes being grateful is the key factor,random acts of kindness and spending time with little people like my neices and nephew doubles my dose of happinesses.

    • Rosalio Abellanosa

      Very informative. I got new ideas. Thanks for sharing.

    • Missy

      Is this even real?? Yeah, I’ll just pick up my family and move to a new country tomorrow. *rolls eyes* I’m sure they’d want a bunch of rednecks moving there, too. And while I’m at it, I’ll randomly start selling property or magically grab a senior supervisory position at a company. And of course, we all live within minutes of a beach to hoof it to to dine at for our rushed lunches. Whomever wrote this list was either high or daydreaming. Most of it is impossible for a lot of people. “Move to Norway!” “Sell real estate!” “Dine at the beach!” Get real, dopehead. How about a few more on this list like rubbing your ear or playing video games, that we can all actually do?? Like maybe, “Have a girls’ night in (chick flick, popcorn, light beverages, 3 or 4 good friends)” or ” let yourself have that weepy time” (tears actually carry chemicals our body makes during times of stress or sadness, out of the body, which is why we feel a little bit better after being a blubbery snotty mess)… this list is so cheesy it should stink or find a hill to roll down.

      • Dree

        Ummmm…that’s why it’s called unusual ways….having a girls night is not unusual. It’s evident you should go ahead and try each of these because to resort to name calling and insults about a happy slideshow shows you need to find happiness.

      • Afters

        Its one thing to have a difference of opinion but to insults someone is taking it too far!I hope you take it easy and find your happiness.

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