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16 Rude Gym Habits You Need to Stop Doing ASAP

Updated: Dec. 13, 2023

Gym culture has an etiquette all its own, so brush up on the things never to do at the gym—before you offend someone holding a 300-pound barbell

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Gym etiquette: Don’t be that person

You get in the zone at the gym. After all, you’re enjoying your “me time” and doing your best to make the most of your workout. But gyms are public places—no matter how far into your workout you are, it’s important to practice proper gym etiquette. From using polite habits to just learning how not to be annoying, you need to be respectful of others exercising around you. To make sure you don’t anger somebody holding a 300-pound barbell, avoid these behaviors that’ll make your fellow exercisers give you the stink eye (perhaps literally).

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Leaving a mess behind

So the best workout for your zodiac sign says you need a mat, a Bosu ball, an assortment of free weights, a foam roller, an incline bench and a few kettlebells to complete your workout? Great—but when you’re done, remember the cardinal rule of any gym. “At the end of your workout, or as you’re done with each piece of equipment, put everything back,” says Dawn Bartolini, a lifestyle and weight-loss coach (who happens to have lost more than 100 pounds). “Your mama doesn’t work here!” On that note, put everything back where it belongs, not where it’s convenient.

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Grunting the entire time

Look, we get it: You’re lifting sooo much weight. But no one is impressed: “Lifting heavy weights is hard,” says James Shapiro, an NYC-based NASM-certified trainer. But when you grunt with every lift, “no one is impressed, you’re awarded no points and no one will talk to you. Please relearn how to breathe properly, which will also help you make greater increases in strength and lean muscle.” Instead of grunting, try these workout quotes for motivation.

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Making the locker room public

There’s really no need to catch up with your boyfriend on video chat while you’re touching up your makeup in the locker room. Please move this to the top of your list of things to never do at the gym, says Eve Dawes, a NASM-certified trainer and yoga, spin and Zumba instructor. “Do not FaceTime in the locker room. We are trying to shower and get changed, not be part of a peep show.” Similarly, it’s basic social media etiquette (and gym etiquette!) not to host a live stream in the locker room either.

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Setting up camp by the weight rack

There’s an unspoken “no-lift zone” in every gym, and it’s called the weight rack. In fact, a good gym etiquette rule of thumb is to consider five feet all around the weight rack off limits for your workout. “If you start a set of bicep curls while standing right in front of the rack, you block the entire gym from accessing the weights,” says Dani Singer, a certified personal trainer. “Grab the weights you need, and find an open spot on the weight floor to perform your workout. Stay out of the weight rack area, unless you’re grabbing or returning your weights.” If you do block people from their workout, you just might find out what happens when you don’t exercise.

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Praising a stranger’s progress

Just as you would never assume a woman is pregnant, you should never offer unsolicited praise to fellow gym-goers—even if you think you’re being kind by giving them a compliment. “I am not a skinny woman,” says Jeanette DePatie, a plus-size certified fitness instructor. “I have had several people come up to me over the years and say things to me that they believe are encouraging—like, ‘Good for you!’ and ‘Stick with it and you’ll lose the weight in no time,’ or ‘It’s so great that you’ve started on your fitness journey.’ Obviously, they are completely unaware that I’m a 20-year licensed fitness teacher who is not exercising to lose weight. Don’t assume you know where somebody is in their exercise journey or that you know why they are exercising.” On that note, these body-positive quotes will help you celebrate all the amazing things your body can do.

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Being a machine hog

There are only so many machines and pieces of equipment to go around at a gym—and gym etiquette during peak times may mean you have to remember the lessons you learned in the sandbox during preschool. “Be courteous of others when you’re using the equipment,” says Michael Kuang, a certified personal trainer. “If you see someone waiting to use the same thing, tell them how much longer you will be. Or better yet, offer to let them work in between your sets.” Here’s how to get the most from your gym membership.

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Throwing your weights

Unless you’ve joined a power-lifting or CrossFit gym, there’s no reason to bang your weights down on the ground between sets. “Besides giving people a heart attack when a 245-pound bar slams to the floor, you are seriously putting people at risk for a broken foot,” warns James Cappola, a personal trainer at Crunch in New York. “If you are in a regular gym with a general population, you have to act accordingly. Don’t be the guy who comes in, attempts to lift a 290-pound barbell and then throws them to the floor because the last few reps are too much.” Either use a spotter or use less weight, bro. Also, you might want to learn how to save money on your gym membership.

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Crowding the squat racks

If you aren’t doing a compound exercise—like a squat, deadlift or shoulder press—then stay out of the squat racks. “This isn’t the place to do your bicep curls, because you can use dumbbells or other bars specifically for that,” explains Nick Rizzo, who has spent six years as a competitive powerlifter and four years training others. “This applies to all other types of random exercises you see people doing in squat racks.” But before you start squatting, find out if you should eat before or after exercising.

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Belting out a tune

You’re in the zone and your playlist dishes up your favorite tune. What do you do? Start singing? No, thank you. You’re not at home in your shower, and everyone outside your headphones can hear your hums and whistles, not to mention profanities as you try to rap alongside Cardi B or your favorite funny songs. “Please, no singing at the top of your lungs,” says Bartolini. “Nobody needs to hear your ‘na-na-nas’!” Yes, you can have fun during your workout, but not to the point of distracting others.

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Recording someone without permission

Now that everyone carries a camera around 24/7, it can be far too easy to capture people and share the video—whether they look silly while using an exercise machine incorrectly or are wearing a workout outfit you think may be inappropriate. Not only is this one of those things to never do at the gym, but you shouldn’t do it anywhere. “In your desire to have a good laugh with your friends at this person’s expense—or worse, on social media—you seriously violate gym rules and common decency,” says Steven McDaniels, director of fitness and recreation at Beacon College in Leesburg, Florida. “Instead of recording and making fun of them, why not make them feel a little bit more welcome be saying hello or offering assistance.” For more phone etiquette, find out the rude texting habits that bother almost everyone.

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Talking too much

Add “be careful striking up a conversation with a stranger” to your list of things to never do at the gym. “If the person is serious about his or her exercise program, he or she will be bothered by a lengthy conversation and try to sneak away from you to resume his or her workout,” says McDaniels. “Exercising already burns a lot of time, which people are usually short on. If you must chat, make it short, sweet and to the point.” When you do chat, make sure you avoid the rude conversation habits you need to stop ASAP.

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Leaving a sweaty mess behind

“Not wiping off equipment that you just used and dripped sweat on is gross,” says Amanda Schaum, a trainer certified by the American Academy of Personal Training. “Many gyms have wipes easily accessible so that you can wipe down sweaty machines immediately after use. It’s also unsanitary and rude to make other people remove your soaking wet towels.”

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Using equipment as a coat rack

Headphones. Check. Water bottle. Check. Towel. Check. Phone. Check. Sweatshirt. Check. But where are you going to put everything? The answer is not on the equipment you aren’t using. “People constantly put all their belongings on a bench or mat that they are not using,” says Schaum. “However, other people in the gym may incorrectly assume the machine is in use. Equipment at the gym is not people’s personal storage space.”

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Hitting on people

When it comes to things to never do at the gym, this one should go without saying—yet some people still need the reminder. Yes, the gym is a place filled with hot people working on getting even hotter. But that doesn’t mean it’s your own personal dating pool. “Don’t try to be a pickup artist at the gym,” says certified personal trainer Christel Oerum. “It’s OK to let someone know that you think they are cute, but most people don’t appreciate aggressive romantic advances—especially if you do it to every girl or guy you see. The gym is a safe space, so respect that.” Now, do you know why you should get a gym membership through Costco?

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We all have some degree of body odor—but you should do your best to manage it around others. “There seems to be a fad amongst some men that feel it’s OK to be au natural and sport a ‘manly’ body scent,” says Josh Grimm, a NASM-certified personal trainer and an expert for Zeamo. “While that may be your personal preference, a gym is a closed-off space where many bodies are releasing toxins and impurities at once. We should all use deodorant.” Just don’t overdo it with colognes, perfumes and body sprays—many people are allergic to these. Basically, you want to avoid strong smells, period.

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Sitting and scrolling on your phone

“If you are looking to cut time in half and increase your heart rate with your workout, then you’ll want to perform one exercise after another with no break,” says personal trainer Alex Carneiro. “However, in today’s gyms, I see most people perform one set and then spend three to five minutes on their social media feeds.” Not only does this kill your momentum and waste your time, but it prevents others from using the equipment you’re sitting on. Next, find out the rude habits you need to stop at restaurants.

About the experts

  • Dawn Bartolini is a lifestyle and weight-loss coach at Dawn Bartolini Coaching. She’s lost more than 100 pounds in her own weight-loss journey.
  • Steven McDaniels is the director of fitness and recreation at Beacon College in Leesburg, Florida.
  • Amanda Schaum is a trainer certified by the— American Academy of Personal Training. She has more than 10 years of training experience.


  • James Shapiro, NYC-based NASM-certified trainer
  • Eve Dawes, NASM-certified trainer and yoga, spin and Zumba instructor
  • Dani Singer, certified personal trainer
  • Jeanette DePatie, certified fitness instructor
  • Michael Kuang, certified personal trainer
  • James Cappola, personal trainer at Crunch in New York
  • Nick Rizzo, competitive powerlifter and trainer
  • Christel Oerum, certified personal trainer
  • Josh Grimm, NASM-certified personal trainer and expert for Zeamo
  • Alex Carneiro, personal trainer