Your partner is always the last to know everything
Every relationship in your life is part of a hierarchy. Your significant other should be at the top or close to the top of that pyramid, which means they should be the first person you confide in. If not, that kind of behavior can be interpreted by your partner as betrayal and signs of a toxic relationship. “You shouldn’t have to spend resources trying to figure out what to tell your partner and what not to tell your partner,” says Dr. Tatkin. “You want to be yourself and feel free to speak.” Next, find out more common behaviors that are subtly sabotaging your relationship.