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14 Things Queen Elizabeth II Doesn’t Want You to Know About Prince Philip

The retired naval hero, great-grandfather—and oh yeah, also the Queen's husband—turns 99 years old on June 10. Prince Philip has always been a bit cheeky compared to his more reserved wife, so here are some little-known facts she probably wouldn't want on her beloved's official bio.

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Prince Philip wasn’t born a British subject

Queen Elizabeth II and her consort, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, have come to represent Britain itself in the 68 years she has been on the throne. But the Queen might not want you to know that her husband isn’t exactly British—at least he wasn’t until he married her. Before he was the Duke of Edinburgh, the young Philip was Prince of Greece and Denmark, nephew of the Greek king, and born on the Greek island of Corfu in 1921. He was not a British citizen, although his ancestry could be traced to multiple countries including Germany and England. “If anything, I’ve thought of myself as Scandinavian, particularly Danish,” he said in a 1992 interview. Although we may think of him as the quintessential English gentleman, he only renounced his titles and became a British citizen, choosing the name Philip Mountbatten, in preparation to marry then-Princess Elizabeth. These 16 rarely seen photos of Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip are proof he made the right choice.

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He had a turbulent childhood

In chin-up British fashion, the Queen and her husband aren’t very open about Prince Philip’s difficult early years. When the Greek royal family was ousted, his family fled the country with baby Philip lodged in a fruit crate. After settling in exile in France, Philip’s family went through more changes: His older sisters married and moved away, his father left, and his mother, who suffered from mental illness, entered a psychiatric hospital. “My mother was ill, my sisters were married, my father was in the south of France—I just had to get on with it,” the BBC reports he said. Young Philip was shuttled off to boarding schools in England, Germany, and Scotland for the rest of his childhood.


His relatives were Nazis

His older sisters didn’t just get married: They got married to Nazis, a fact Queen Elizabeth isn’t likely eager to have the world know. When Philip’s sister Cecile and her husband, both Nazi party members, died in a plane crash in 1937, young Philip was sent to Germany for the funeral and had to walk in the procession among Nazi soldiers. None of Philip’s sisters were invited to his wedding in 1947, but the royal couple reunited with his German relations in 2015. Prince Philip, of course, can’t help who his relatives are, and he himself went on to fight for the Allies as a Royal Navy officer in World War II. Also, Philip’s mother, Princess Alice, sheltered Jews during World War II when she was living in Athens. She was honored with the title “Righteous Among the Nations on Princess Alice” by Holocaust memorial Yad Vashem for her actions and is buried in Jerusalem.

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Queen Elizabeth’s father didn’t approve of Philip

This is the true story of how Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip fell in love: The young Princess met the dashing Prince when she was just 13, and the two corresponded as friends for many years before their romantic relationship blossomed. But a Time magazine article from 1957 points out that the Princess’ father, King George VI, “strongly disapproved” of the match. “Despite Philip’s British background and his fine war record, George VI was deeply worried about how British opinion…would take to a Greek Prince as the husband of the heiress presumptive,” Time reported. “There was also something about his daughter’s brash young man with his loud, boisterous laugh and his blunt, seagoing manners that irritated the gentle King.” Plus, Philip was poor (by royal standards, at least), exiled, had German roots and Nazi relatives, and wasn’t considered a proper choice for the princess. The Queen might not want you to know she had to make the case for her Prince, but her wishes eventually won over her father—and the country. The couple wed on November 20, 1947.

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He’s related to the Queen

It’s true: Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip are secretly related. Intermarriage between cousins is something the Queen probably wants to downplay these days, although it historically tended to be commonplace: Even the famously in love Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were first cousins. Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip’s family connection isn’t quite that close, but they are third cousins, as both are great-great-grandchildren of Victoria and Albert themselves. Historically, it was imperative to marry amongst royalty to secure power, and there were only so many options. And so today, it’s unlikely for any modern royal not to be descended from Queen Victoria: As her nine children were married off to royalty all over the continent, she’s known as “the grandmother of Europe.”

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He didn’t want to give up his naval career

Just because Philip and Elizabeth were in love, doesn’t mean there weren’t hurdles in their marriage. The Queen might not want you to know that although the Duke is rightly lauded for his naval career, he feels he had to give it up all too soon when she suddenly became queen. “I thought I was going to have a career in the Navy but it became obvious there was no hope,” he reportedly said. “There was no choice. It just happened. You have to make compromises. That’s life. I accept it. I tried to make the best of it.” He revealed in a 1992 interview in the Independent that instead of some of his royal charity positions, “I’d much rather have stayed in the Navy, frankly.” Even his grandson, Prince William, admits it must have been hard for his grandfather to have given up his own ambitions to support the Queen. “But he does it fantastically well,” Prince William told ABC News. “He’s never complained. Well, he has complained a little bit, but not sort of too openly.”

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He wasn’t happy his children couldn’t have his last name

Prince Philip also resented that his kids couldn’t even take his last name—or rather, that Queen Elizabeth wouldn’t allow it, as she wanted to keep to her name of the House of Windsor after their marriage. “I am the only man in the country not allowed to give his name to his own children,” he reportedly said. In 1960, the couple reached a compromise: Although the royal house itself would remain as Windsor, their descendants, should they need a last name, would be called Mountbatten-Windsor. The real reason Prince Philip isn’t considered the king is a whole other story.

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He’s a secret romantic

Even with their early squabbles, Prince Philip and Queen Elizabeth were very much in love—even if they didn’t, and still don’t, talk about it often publicly. “To have been spared in the war and seen victory, to have been given the chance to rest and to re-adjust myself, to have fallen in love completely and unreservedly, makes all one’s personal and even the world’s troubles seem small and petty,” Philip wrote in a personal letter to Elizabeth’s mother. Over the years, he’s given her gorgeous presents like a ruby and diamond brooch she favors for holiday occasions. In return, she recently gave him a knighthood for their 70th anniversary. Prince Philip’s pet name for Queen Elizabeth will melt your heart as well.

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He has a naughty sense of humor

Prince Philip is well-known for his straightforward (some might say rude) manner, wicked quips, and occasional habit of putting his foot in his mouth. A few of the gaffes the Queen wouldn’t want getting around? Speaking about a Scottish tartan, he said, “That’s a nice tie…Do you have any knickers [underpants] in that material?” To bombing victims, the Duke said, “After a fire it is water damage that is the worst. We are still drying out Windsor Castle,” referring to the 1992 fire. During a recession, he said, “Everybody was saying we must have more leisure…now that everybody’s got more leisure time they are complaining they are unemployed.” Then there’s this gem from 1961: “British women can’t cook.” And there are more that we can’t say!

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He maybe shouldn’t be driving

Prince Philip still likes to get behind the wheel—but the Queen might not want everyone to know that like many older people, maybe he shouldn’t. In early 2019 he got into a bad accident when he pulled out of a driveway and hit another car, flipping his own. Bystanders helped the shaken but unhurt Duke out of his vehicle. In an apology letter to a passenger in the other car who broke her wrist, he noted the sun was in his eyes. “I would like you to know how very sorry I am for my part in the accident,” he reportedly wrote. After the incident, the Duke voluntarily gave up his driver’s license but is still allowed to drive on his own estates’ grounds, as he was recently seen doing. Funny enough, Queen Elizabeth has never been required to pass a driver’s test or have a driver’s license, and she still drives.

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He’s the most popular royal among the palace staff

Queen Elizabeth might not want it getting out that’s she’s upstaged in her own household. But according to Matt Smith, who played Prince Philip in the Netflix series The Crown, the Duke is the favorite royal among the staff. “In the royal house he’s the most popular of all of them—if you’ve talked to any of the staff, Philip’s the one they all love really,” Smith said in a Variety interview. “I think more than a lot of them, he’s a bit more of a man of the people. The royal protocol hasn’t dogged him in quite the same way his whole life, and there’s a sort of rebellion in him and a naughtiness and a cheekiness. I think he’s quite affable and open by all accounts with the staff. They all love him.” Here’s what The Crown gets wrong about the royal family.

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He met his newest great-grandchild before the Queen

Another way Prince Philip has broken royal protocol? He met his latest great-grandchild, Harry and Meghan’s son, Archie Harrison Mountbatten-Windsor, before the Queen—although by accident. Queen Elizabeth and her husband weren’t supposed to be introduced to the new royal until later in the day, but Prince Philip ran into Prince Harry and wife Meghan on their way to talk to the press. “We just bumped into the Duke as we were walking by, which was so nice,” the Duchess told photographers. Whoops! By the way, if you’re wondering how many grandchildren and great-grandchildren Prince Philip has now, here’s the entire royal family, explained in one easy chart.

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He helped Prince William on the day of his mother’s funeral

The royal family was famously quiet in the days after Princess Diana’s tragic death in 1997—and have been criticized for it. But although the Queen might not speak about it, she and Prince Philip spent the time helping young Princes Harry and William through the grief over their mother’s passing. The Duke reportedly did not always get along with Diana—the shocking rumor that’s plagued Prince Philip for decades was that he even had a hand in her death. But in reality, Philip helped William find the courage to walk in the funeral procession. At first, the Duke was protective of the boys and their participation in the walk, reportedly saying with uncharacteristic emotion, “We are talking about two boys who have just lost their mother.” But as Prince William wrestled with the decision, he gave the young man strength and support. “If I walk, will you walk with me?” he asked the 15-year-old prince. Both William and his grandfather, along with Prince Harry, Prince Charles, and Diana’s brother, Earl Spencer, walked behind her coffin. “It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, that walk,” Prince William said in the BBC documentary Diana, 7 Days.

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The Queen couldn’t have done it without him

The Duke may be a secret feminist: He’s not intimidated by his powerful wife, always stands by her side, and in fact, is the only one allowed to take her on. “Prince Philip is the only man in the world who treats the Queen simply as another human being—I think she values that,” her former private secretary Lord Charteris reportedly said. “And, of course, it is not unknown for the Queen to tell the Duke to shut up.” The Queen’s grandson, Prince Harry, even told ABC News, “Without him, she would be slightly lost, I think.” Although she doesn’t often reveal her feelings for her husband, the Queen herself has acknowledged, in a rare show of vulnerability, “He has, quite simply, been my strength and stay all these years. I…owe him a debt greater than he would ever claim or we shall ever know.” Now that you know more about Prince Philip, browse these candid photos of the royal family you’ve never seen.

Tina Donvito
Tina Donvito is a regular contributor to’s Culture and Travel sections. She also writes about health and wellness, parenting, and pregnancy. Previously editor-in-chief of Twist magazine, Donvito has also written for Parade Magazine, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Parents Magazine online, among others. Here work was selected by author Elizabeth Gilbert to be included in the anthology Eat Pray Love Made Me Do It: Life Journeys Inspired by the Bestselling Memoir. She earned a BA in English and History from Rutgers University.