What Is Your Venus Sign—and What Does It Mean for Your Love Life?
Updated: May 18, 2023
Curious what the cosmos have to say about your romantic life? Your Venus sign could be the key to finding that special someone.
Finding love through your Venus sign
Looking for a love that rivals the very best romance novels? It might sound too good to be true, but believe it or not, there is a way to find your own star-crossed romance: knowing your Venus sign. Astrology can tell you a lot about your own personality, and it can answer all your deepest burning questions about dating and love. It can also guide you to the ideal best friend for your zodiac sign.
And while finding “the one” in the modern dating scene certainly isn’t easy, looking at your birth chart to learn more about your rising sign, your sister signs and specifically your Venus sign meaning can show you what you need from a partner to feel satisfied in love.
“Venus relates to the concept of pleasure and everything that brings it to us,” says astrologer Narayana Montúfar. “While other planets like Mars and Saturn challenge us, Venus grants us some of the most positive moments as well as life experiences.” Looking at zodiac compatibility can help you find your better half, but your Venus sign holds the secrets behind what makes you swoon.
So what is a Venus sign, exactly?
Each planet in your birth chart represents a different side of your personality. For example, your sun sign can show how you express your deepest heart desires, while your rising sign is the energetic aura that other people see when they first meet you. And if you’re looking to learn more about your astrological love language, Venus is the go-to planet. “Venus reminds us of the beauty in all our connections—not just the erotically charged ones,” explains astrologer and columnist Rebecca Farrar. Understanding these differences can help you determine things like romantic compatibility and the most trustworthy zodiac signs for you to date.
In astrology, Venus is the planetary ruler of all the things we desire like love, money, art, beauty and relationships. Along with governing how we internally process our feelings, the placement of your Venus sign is key to determining long-term compatibility.
Your Venus sign can also explain how you deal with breakups. If you’ve ever had an ex that won’t stop calling your phone, there’s a chance their Venus sign is to blame. So which Venus signs are the most clingy? Most experts agree that Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) tend to be the clingiest of the bunch, however the Fire Signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) also have a bit of a reputation for being overbearing in love.
How do I find my Venus sign?
Finding your Venus sign is simple. You’ll just need to create a copy of your birth chart using an online Venus sign calculator like this one from Astro Seek. Or if you already know your and your potential love interest’s birth chart info, you can use a calculator like this one to see your complete compatibility score.
Once you’ve input the required information (time of birth, city of birth and birthday), you will find out what your Venus sign is. Then, using our zodiac romance compatibility guide below, read up on which Venus signs astrologers say make the best match.
What are the most compatible Venus signs?
There are a few things to consider when looking at what makes two zodiac signs compatible. When it comes to finding love with the help of astrology, Venus is one of the most important placements to consider. And one of the best ways to determine your Venus sign compatibility with someone is to compare your zodiac elements.
Zodiac signs are categorized into four elements:
- Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius)
- Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn)
- Air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius)
- Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces)
Having a positive connection between you and your partner’s Venus sign is one of the most important indicators of an astrological soulmate connection. As a general rule, your Venus sign will be the most compatible with someone whose Venus sign is in the same element as your own, or a complimentary element.
This means that each Venus sign has six potential pairings that work best:
- Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) are compatible with other water and earth signs.
- Air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) are compatible with other air and fire signs.
- Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) are compatible with other earth and water signs.
- Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) are compatible with other fire signs and air signs.
As you can see, there’s more than one “perfect match” for each Venus sign. That’s why we’ve gone ahead and created an easy guide to finding your astrological soulmate using your Venus sign. Keep reading to find out if your perfect match is a spicy Sagittarius or a playful Pisces.
Venus in Aries
People born with Venus in Aries like to take chances in love. You have a fiery spirit that loves to make a big impression, and you show that same over-the-top affection to the people you’re attracted to most. You can be a bit hot-tempered at times, but ultimately your softer side wins out at the end of the day.
Passion is everything to you—which is why you need a partner who can match your energy. “A lover and a fighter, Aries Venus craves independence and freedom in love. They seek out partners who inspire them and make them feel alive when they’re together,” says Farrar. You can also learn their zodiac power color to see if they are compatible.
- Best matches: Venus in Aries, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in Aquarius
- Worst matches: Venus in Cancer, Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Pisces
Venus in Taurus
Taurus is a lover to the end, and that’s because Taurus is ruled by the planet of love and beauty, Venus. This means that anyone born with a Venus in Taurus has a natural flirtation and charm about their energy in love. Because of Venus’s influence on your love life, you tend to be gentle, compassionate and extremely loving in relationships.
You love being in love—but can be very stubborn about who gets your attention. You may be slow to show your affection at first. And it’s not uncommon for you to make people work to prove their love. But once someone has earned your trust and loyalty, there’s nothing you wouldn’t do for that person. “Taurus Venus seeks sensuality and stability in love, and they match best with a partner who shares their same values and ambitions in life,” explains astrologer Ankush Wadhwa.
- Best matches: Venus in Cancer, Venus in Virgo, Venus in Taurus
- Worst matches: Venus in Leo, Venus in Aquarius, Venus in Aries
Venus in Gemini
Flirty and fun, people born with Venus in Gemini make charming conversationalists. You have a cool, vivacious and spunky energy about you that draws people in. And your quick wit and humor are what keeps them coming back for more.
You like to play the field a bit, and you’re not afraid to step outside your usual type. The most important thing to you is finding someone with whom you never run out of things to talk about. “These folks enjoy a lot of pillow talk and banter with their partner,” shares astrologer Lizanne Hanks. “However, they also need constant mental stimulation to stay interested, so whatever you do, don’t be boring!”
- Best matches: Venus in Aries, Venus in Leo, Venus in Aquarius
- Worst matches: Venus in Virgo, Venus in Pisces, Venus in Taurus
Venus in Cancer
People born with Cancer Venus are tender-hearted and sweet. You tend to be nurturing, sensitive and emotional in love. And you’re drawn to people who can provide you with the security and comfort you crave. “Cancer Venus shows tenderness in love, emotional sharing and always being there for those you love. They also have a classic desire for physical touch and romance, so affection is a must for them,” explains Farrar. You seek comfort in all forms and look for a relationship that feels like home—which is why dating a partner with a high degree of emotional intelligence and great listening skills is a must.
- Best matches: Venus in Taurus, Venus in Cancer, Venus in Pisces
- Worst matches: Venus in Aries, Venus in Libra, Venus in Aquarius
Venus in Leo
Leo Venus is known for loyalty and devotion in relationships. You’re also the prideful type who likes to make a good impression on others. And when you find yourself smitten with someone, you’ll do just about anything to win them over. Your charm and warmth are what attract people to you, but it’s your commitment to making your partner feel special that seals the deal. “People born with a Leo Venus are confident, passionate and expressive in love. They match best with someone who appreciates their creativity and flair for the dramatic,” says Wadhwa. You are incredibly generous and open-hearted with friends and lovers alike. And your ideal partner will be someone who shares your zest for life.
- Best matches: Venus in Aries, Venus in Gemini, Venus in Libra
- Worst matches: Venus in Scorpio, Venus in Taurus, Venus in Pisces
Venus in Virgo
Venus in Virgo is in a tricky position because it has a difficult time expressing itself in a traditionally romantic sense. And this makes sense: So much of romance is about taking a leap of faith, and Virgo is a very practical sign. You understand that under the glitz and glamour of romance, it actually takes a lot of hard work to build a happy relationship. People born with Venus in Virgo are very organized, competent and helpful, so others may not even notice all you do to make life run smoothly, explains Hanks. You seek an equal partner and are always willing to do your part to make a relationship work. And you need a reliable, attentive partner who can commit for the long run.
- Best matches: Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio
- Worst matches: Venus in Gemini, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in Aries
Venus in Libra
People born with Venus in Libra are the social butterflies of the zodiac. This is what gives you your natural grace and charm. You have an innate ability to tune into others’ emotions. “Venus in Libra is mindful and attentive to the needs of her partner. This is a particularly romantic placement for Venus, which explains Libra’s desire to see the best in everyone they meet,” says Hanks. It takes more than a dazzling smile and a few good jokes to catch your eye, however. You have an ambitious streak in you, and you’re looking for someone to share your world with. So you pair best with a partner who shares your passions.
- Best matches: Venus in Leo, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in Aquarius
- Worst matches: Venus in Cancer, Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Virgo
Venus in Scorpio
Falling in love with a Scorpio Venus isn’t for the faint of heart. You’re someone who requires complete devotion from your partner. And while you might be good at playing it cool in the beginning, you’re a secret romantic. “Scorpio Venus brings both vulnerability and empowerment to those they love, and in turn, they crave relationships built on shared intimacy,” says Farrar. More than any type of physical attraction, Scorpio Venus wants to truly know—and be known by—another person. You need a partner who can match your emotional intelligence and isn’t afraid to say what’s on their mind at any given time.
- Best matches: Venus in Virgo, Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Scorpio
- Worst matches: Venus in Leo, Venus in Aquarius, Venus in Libra
Venus in Sagittarius
Sagittarius Venus placements are thrill-seekers in life and love. You admire people who share your love of adventure, desire for freedom and openness to new experiences. This Venus placement does get a bit of a reputation for being a flirt, but you can’t help that people fall for your charms. While you like the idea of happily ever after, it’s important for you to be able to maintain your individuality in your relationship while still being able to bond over your shared hobbies and interests. “Venus in Sagittarius is jovial, adventurous and exuberant. They’re always the life of the party and seek a companion for their stunts and explorations,” says Hanks.
- Best matches: Venus in Libra, Venus in Aquarius, Venus in Leo
- Worst matches: Venus in Virgo, Venus in Cancer, Venus in Pisces
Venus in Capricorn
People born with Venus in Capricorn take dating and falling in love very seriously. You don’t give your heart away easily, and it takes time for potential suitors to win you over. It’s hard for people born with this placement to see the world through rose-colored glasses. “Capricorn Venus placements tend to be responsible, disciplined and ambitious in love. They may match well with someone who shares their sense of duty and can provide them with stability and security,” says Wadhwa. You approach love from a practical place in order to give yourself the best chance of success. And you’re drawn to people who are upfront and honest with what they want.
- Best matches: Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Scorpio, Venus in Pisces
- Worst matches: Venus in Aries, Venus in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Aquarius
Aquarius Venus is an interesting placement and usually means you approach dating in a totally unique way. You’re drawn to people who challenge you to think outside the box and push you to expand your worldview. “This Venus sign has an electricity and creative spark to it and future-oriented thinking in connecting with others who seem as forward-thinking as you,” explains Farrar. Being born with Venus in Aquarius means you are drawn to relationships and people that allow you to be yourself completely. You’re not looking for a lover to save you from yourself; you need a partner in crime to take on the world with.
- Best matches: Venus in Libra, Venus in Gemini, Venus in Aquarius
- Worst matches: Venus in Taurus, Venus in Scorpio, Venus in Capricorn
Venus in Pisces
People born with Venus in Pisces fall in love fast and hard. Love is the greatest adventure of them all, and you’re looking for someone to sweep you off your feet. You have a tendency to ignore the flaws of the people closest to you, and you may even fall into the role of people-pleaser at times. So it’s important for you to ensure the people you allow into your life are there for the right reasons. “People born with a Pisces Venus are compassionate, intuitive and imaginative lovers,” Wadhwa says. “They match best with someone who shares their emotional depth and can provide them with the emotional connection they crave.” Chances are, you’ll want to shower your special someone with gifts that seem tailor-made for them, then curl up together and spend hours getting to know each other even better.
- Best matches: Venus in Taurus, Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Scorpio
- Worst matches: Venus in Gemini, Venus in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius
Sources:
- Lizanne Hanks, professional astrologer
- Rebecca Farrar, professional astrologer and writer
- Narayana Montúfar, professional astrologer and author of Moon Signs: Unlock Your Inner Luminary
- Ankush Wadhwa, professional astrologer and spiritual coach
Originally Published: May 18, 2023
